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Sometimes, seniors can no longer live on their own. They need some help doing daily activities that many of us don’t think twice about. You may be a caregiver to a family member, and trying your best, but it just doesn’t seem to be enough. That doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with your care – you’re only human! Or maybe you’re the one realizing it’s not best for you to live on your own anymore. The good news is, there’s plenty of options for you or your loved one to consider.
If you’re not sure if you or your loved one needs professional help, it can be beneficial
to think through the activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, going to the bathroom, and eating on your own. There are also instrumental activities of daily living, like paying your bills, cleaning the house, cooking for yourself, leaving the house, and socializing.
There are, of course, other aspects to consider. Switching from living mostly independently in your own home to possibly moving or getting someone to help you is a big decision.
Is there a worsening medical condition involved? Whether it be heart disease,
Alzheimer’s, or even a couple falls recently, it’s important to take these into account. Are you or your loved one isolated? This can include not participating in hobbies, not meeting up with friends or family, and not even leaving the house.
There is some good news: there are a lot
of options for you or your loved one if you need help. Are you up to moving? Or do you want to stay in your home? Do you need somewhere with 24/7 care? Do you need help with bathing and getting dressed? Or do you just need somewhere that can help to coordinate your care and can provide meals when you can’t cook for yourself?
Understanding what you or your loved one need, and all of your options, can help you make the best choice for the care of you or your loved one. Make sure to speak with you or your loved one’s doctor because they may be able to help you come to a decision. These may be hard conversations, but don’t put them off – it can benefit you or your loved one’s quality of life in the long run.
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